Overcome Long Distance Relationship

Have you ever had a long distance relationship? Hmm, I've experienced it even now, allow me now to share a little information about, how to maintain your relationship, in a long distance relationship, so lets check it out...

When talking long distance relationship, so remember this song "... A lonely road, crossed another cold state line, miles away from Those I love purpose hard to find ...Dear God the only thing I ask of you is to hold her when I'm not around, when I'm much too far away ...:( Huhuhuhu.

Love does not know the place and time. Therefore, many emerging couples separated by distance, rivers, mountains, seas, and even continents? Such couples do have their own challenges. If trust and love is not strong, the relationship could easily fall apart, following a few tips for you guys who have long distance relationship:

First : Trust
When you are committed to long distance relationships, believing to your couple is very important. If you can not trust your couple, you should think twice before embarking on a long distance relationship. You can be tired, tormented by the suspicion and jealousy because you can not always keep an eye on your couple. If there is a feeling of suspicion or anxiety, revealed to him directly. Do not keep to themselves and develop into a problem.

Second: Communication
Now days, everything was easy. Although different continents, many communications alternatives can be reached. In addition to the phone, can also be done with chatting on the internet. Want to send photos, videos until everything was possible. Moreover, the costs are also much cheaper. No more excuse for not communicating. If there is a feeling of doubt, suspicion, or other feelings, speak directly to your couple. Do not bury and second guessing yourself. About the frequency, adjust to their respective activities. Not to interfere and make him angry.

Occasionally, there's nothing wrong if you send regular mail using the post. In addition to more personal, in the regular mail you can leave a fragrance that you use often, so it can cause feelings of nostalgia for him.

Third: Make a surprise
Surprise is often the refreshment of a relationship. For a long distance, you can use a delivery service. Occasionally, sending flowers can be a romantic longing bidder. If there was enough time for the holiday, surprise him by coming to his city. If possible, find out first on his schedule that day. Your visit will not be necessary for long, the important sense of longing has been treated, so as not to interfere with his schedule.

Fourth: Set the rules
To avoid misunderstandings should you (and your couple, of course) should set the rules. For example, how long must meet?, What every day should be called?, Is there a special day where you need to meet? And various other rules. 

Fifth: Anticipation of the possibilities
In the long distance relationship, there are many barriers factors. Although already made plans, you should always be prepared for the worst. For example, when it was an appointment, your lover there is a sudden meeting. Or you can just could not go to see him as a friend to confide in friends after breaking up with boyfriend. or other problems.


Sixth: Patience
Emotions are difficult to control. Sometimes a little upset could be a problem. Especially for long distance couples, patience is an important aspect. Therefore, when problems arise you should try to be patient and do not immediately explode. Remember, meetings and communication is difficult, should be filled with something fun, so the relationship is more intimate. Always end the conversation with the sweet words.

Seventh: Weigh the Pros and Cons
Not everyone can live a long distance relationship as well. Need lots of patience and effort to get through it all. Consider the positive and negative relationships that are being undertaken. Are you and your partner happy? Are you more likely to fight, rather than having fun? Whether the relationship changed for the worse after a loved one move to another city?And various other things.

Once you think about it and apparently a lot more bad things happen, it helps you think, whether long distance relationship is continued or not? Do not rush to end the relationship, a good talk about this with your couple. Give the right reasons and arguments. In the end, it would be good if you and your partner can find a way out. Anyone know of any changes will actually make your relationship better. But if not, the harsh reality must be taken. Anyway who would want to keep sadness and suffering, because love.

Finally: The Future (Commitment)
Relationships that have a purpose right, make sure you and your partner more spirit. If indeed you are confident with him, try to commit. At least do not be avoided when talking about it. An especially long distance relationships have a strong commitment, so that makes you and your couple remains strong.

That was a little tips and tricks from me, which I've experienced about 2 years, and still runs fine until now. I suggest, do continue to improvise so that your relationship is not to be boring. I hope this article can restore confidence and your commitment to your couple :)